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Mature MILF tag for the blog on the personal website of Tall MILF Escort KimberlyC – Independent American escort in England touring Oxford, London, Glasgow, and other British locations.

Benjamin Franklin: MILF lover!

It may come as a surprise to some that mature escorts are extremely popular. While it’s true that our culture prizes youth and equates it with beauty, there’s a lot to be said for the virtues of sex with a mature escort, sometimes referred to as a MILF escort.

MILF stands for “Mum I’d Love to Fuck.” However, not all MILFs are necessarily mothers and not all mothers are strictly MILFs: those young mums you see at the school gates of primary schools are “yummy mummies.” A MILF is a woman old enough to be the mother of the young man doing the lusting. In the movie American Pie, which popularised the term, the classmates of Stiffler wanted Stiffler’s Mom so badly they lauded her as a MILF.

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“MILF! MILF! MILF!”

What is the appeal of the mature escort? I think it comes down to the belief that older women are more relaxed about sex, comfortable with their bodies, know what they want sexually, and know how to ask for it. And there’s the general idea that we’ve learned a trick or two. We have had time to experiment with all sorts of things over the years. Also, a MILF escort may feel the need to compensate for what they assume is a lack of beauty by swinging from the chandeliers. Conversely, many a pretty young thing will assume that simply lying there and letting you fuck her is all she has to do. How can she know any better when all she’s ever experienced is equally callow young men, who behave as if the only thing they care about is lying on top of her and fucking her?

But, what do I know? I am a woman, and an obviously biased mature escort. I can’t speak for the man’s point of view. And so I went looking for what men have to say on the subject and I found this brilliant letter by Benjamin Franklin advising a young man of the virtues of taking an older woman for a mistress:

June 25, 1745

My dear Friend,

I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy….

But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:

1. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor’d with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.

2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.

3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc’d may be attended with much Inconvenience.

4. Because thro’ more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin’d to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.

5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.

6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.

7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.

8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!

Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being sincerely Your affectionate Friend.

http://www.swarthmore.edu/SocSci/bdorsey1/41docs/51-fra.html

And there you have it – how can you possibly doubt the wisdom of such a Statesman, Scientist, and Inventor as Benjamin Franklin?!

If you are looking to have some fun with a woman who knows what she is doing and enjoys it, then you could do a lot worse than to book a mature escort!

Please have a look at my advice on how to get the most out of your booking with a mature escort (or any independent escort).

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KimberlyC: mature Manchester independent escort.

(This is the personal website of mature Manchester escort KimberlyC, an independent escort available for incalls and outcalls in Manchester, as well as incalls in London, Glasgow, Oxford and other UK cities.)

My FAQ Expanded: No. 1 – Are You The Woman in the Photos?

I thought it would be fun to write a series of posts in which I expand on questions I am commonly asked by the gentlemen who call to book. It’s only natural to have plenty of questions when you’re about to drop a significant amount of money on a booking with an escort. I have a basic FAQ page here, and in a series of blog posts I am going to expand upon some of them.

Q) Is That Really You in the Photos?

A) Yes!

The question, “Are those really your photos” is, perhaps unsurprisingly, a common one. I believe the reason it is common is that there are, unfortunately, a fair few misleading advertisers out there. The level of deception can be mild (that is to say, Photoshopped or out-of-date photos) or severe (you will never even meet the woman in the photo.) It seems obvious to me that an independent mature escort who has gone to the trouble of creating a promoting a personal website would be serious about following through with quality service. And there’s no way to deliver quality service if your customer feels betrayed upon arrival. I have no desire to be alone with a man who feels that he has been ripped off and deceived. If I waste your time, I waste my own.

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Mature Independent Escort: my more everyday hairstyle. Wild and free and freshly washed!

So, the photos on my website, with the rare and obvious exceptions, are amateur snapshots are taken as selfies with a Selfie-stick or with the help of my tripod and remote-control shutter button. Occasionally, I will have a friend help me out by taking some more elaborate posed shots. I also try to make it clear on my gallery page when these photos were taken, with older photos towards the bottom.

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Mature independent Manchester – The legs are constant. The hairstyle…. not so much

I have had professional studio shots done in the past – the glossy ones that you see in many of my headers were taken by a professional photographer in a studio with lighting and the benefit of professional hair and makeup at the end of 2013. I’ll be honest: I only like these photos because they make my site look more glossy and professional. I would like to have more taken but in the future I will guard against looking too done-up. In real life my hair is not professionally styled! I also recognise the need for some airbrushing with these sorts of photos because the high-resolution of the camera lens, coupled with the studio lighting, means the raw photos are OH MY GOD WOULD YOU LOOK AT THE SIZE OF THOSE PORES ON HER NOSE! I am hoping to find a photographer with a good studio who can airbrush the distracting bits without removing the features that give me character, including the crows’ feet around my eyes. I’d like to strike a balance between realistic amateur and glossy professional.

(This is the personal website of Independent MILF Manchester Escort Kimberly C. All content is written by Kimberly C.)

Never too Old to Play with Toys… some of my favourites so far

Even though I’m a mature escort, I still love to play with toys. At least, I love them in the bedroom. Over the past year or two I’ve purchased quite a few and amassed quite a box of sex toys. I’ve got some firm favorites.

I prefer sex toys that can be used during intercourse – adding sensation to even the most basic positions. This usually means something small and vibrating. I really love those little jelly vibrating cock rings that you can find anywhere that sells condoms:

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I buy these from Lovehoney

These are great because I can use them to turn any man into my own, personal sex toy. They’re very stretchy and soft so they’re comfortable for him, and when I’m riding in cowgirl it’s fun to grind my clit against the vibrator for my own greedy pleasure. They’re also versatile enough to be used in multiples – extras wrapped around the balls so that the scrotum gets a buzz. I’ve even stuck a couple up inside myself when he wasn’t looking so that he’d get a surprise when he penetrated me!

But my all-time favourite sex toy would have to be this little guy:

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My favorite sex toy. Although small for its size it can be enjoyed by more than one person simultaneously…

I like to insert it in my bum while riding a cock cowgirl, making me feel so full and horny in my bottom whilst making my pussy vibrate for his pleasure, as well.

When I saw this toy I simply had to have it:

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The most expensive toy I own

That’s the JimmyJane Hello Touch – a vibrator you wear on your fingertips. It is fantastic for massaging the balls during oral or for an oily wank.

I also have toys that I can use on you. Some men like anal play and want to be gently penetrated with a small vibrator, so I always have a few of these sorts of things:

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Can’t have too many vibrators!

An important note about anal play: I am scrupulously clean. All of my toys are cleaned after each use and disinfected with Dettol. Furthermore, anything that will be inserted into you will first be covered with a condom. So you never have to worry about hygiene during a booking with me.

I have a handful of other bits and bobs, such as underbed restraints for tie-and-tease, a satin blindfold, some tickling feather, etc. I have all of my toys available when I am doing incalls in Manchester, but I only take my favourites – like the ones pictured here – when I go on tour. A week in London or Oxford or Glasgow requires an awful lot of sexy clothes and lingerie but I will always make room for my favourite toys.

Here’s what I’ve brought on tour with me this week in Huddersfield (including a brand-new big pink jelly vibrator and a butt-plug with remote-control vibrator):

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And yet I still want more…

And finally, just for fun, is a photo of a Magic 8-ball butt plug:

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(No, I don’t own this. But I do have a couple of basic ones!)

(This is the personal website of KimberlyC: an American Independent Manchester Escort who tours to London, Glasgow, Oxford, and other UK cities. This MILF loves sex toys and adores men!)

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A variety of vibrators – I wish I could buy them all!